METAMORPHOSIS
A rite of passage ceremony for women & femmes of color presented by S.O.U.L. and the OHM Center.
September 20 - September 22, 2024
Are you seeking a sacred container to honor your journey of womanhood?
Are you yearning for a place to be seen and celebrated in your growth and healing?
Are you craving a space to nurture your spirit and express your creativity?
Are you sensing an inner transformation from maiden to mother to matriarch?
Are your yearning for sisterhood/siblinghood and to be witnessed in your divine femininity?
If you resonate with any of the above, this ceremony is made for you.
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WELCOME TO
METAMORPHOSIS
CEREMONY DATES: September 20-22nd
This sacred celebration spans 2.5 days and is dedicated to honoring the archetypal transitions of womanhood from Maiden to Mother* to Matriarch*.
This "Metamorphosis" combines a rich tapestry of practices and rituals rooted in holistic trauma-informed healing, somatic psychotherapy, expressive arts therapy, and spiritual practice.
The arc of this experiential journey is intentionally designed for adult women and femmes of color at all ages and stages to honor the milestones of our sacred journey in womanhood.
The experience is meant to support us to claim our power, deepen in sisterhood, and rise into our collective radiance.
This is an intimate container of deep support and attention for each participant, thus, we have a limited number of spots available.
Artist: Tamara Adams
What are the Maiden, Mother, and Matriarch archetypes?
We see these archetypes as universal, fluid and not based on age. You could be a “Matriarch” in a leadership role or a “Maiden” in a new relationship. You could be experiencing all three simultaneously or be very clear about one transition you’re making.
Maiden is a time of youthfulness and adventure, coming into one’s sexuality, sensuality, and zest for life. This stage includes exploring your identity, your relationship to the world and your sense of independence.
Mother is a blooming of the mature feminine and Creatrix (not explicitly motherhood). This stage is about presence, nurturing, holding and tending. It includes cultivating a compassionate inner mother and healing maternal wounds personal and communal.
Matriarch is about rising into one’s leadership of a family, community, team, or project by virtue of their wisdom and maturity. The Matriarch is about taking dominion and ownership over one’s life and extending that fortitude to lead others as well.
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.”
~ Maya Angelou
This ceremony is for you if …
» You’re shedding skins and moving out of the innocence, insecurity and immaturity of the Maiden
» You're being called to step up into a new stage of maturity, self-security and inner mothering
» You’re ready to unapologetically own your voice, speak your truth and take the lead as the Matriarch of your life
» You’re tired of feeling isolated in your healing and seeking spiritually-rooted sisterhood and siblinghood
» You’re exhausted by all the demands that life brings and ready to release and be held in community
» You’re moving through grief and don’t want to feel alone as you embark on this next stage of your journey
» You’re aligning internally and looking to sharing your gifts in ways that are more creative, purposeful and soulful
» You devote a lot of energy to others and want to create space to honor your path in an intentional and sacred way
» You’re being ushered across the threshold of initiation and seeking guidance and support from the Divine Feminine
“Feminist thinking teaches us all, especially, how to love justice and freedom in ways that foster and affirm life.”
~ bell hooks
What is a rite of passage ceremony?
For centuries in cultures around the world, rite of passage ceremonies have been co-created to celebrate a person's transition from one life stage to another.
Due to colonization, racism, patriarchy, and other forms of oppression and harm, many of our cultural rituals have been lost or displaced.
The Metamorphosis Ceremony is an offering of reclamation as we reclaim some of those traditions and self-initiate ourselves into the next evolution of our collective awakening.
We have designed this ceremony for adult women and femmes of color navigating change at all ages and stages of life.
Over the course of our three day ceremony you will:
Deepen your healing journey, honor yourself unconditionally, and celebrate every step you’ve taken on your journey of becoming.
Learn to embody each stage of womanhood, becoming the leader, lover, mother, parent, daughter, sister, sibling, partner and friend you are born to be.
Discover creative tools, embodiment practices, and new frameworks for self reflection, self celebration, and accessing the divine feminine within.
Rest and play in a community of women and femmes of color also on their paths self love, liberation, transformation and metamorphosis.
Metamorphosis Ceremony Flow
During our three day ceremony, we will be embraced by the elements as we deeper into our healing, expand in our expression and ultimately cross the threshold of initiation to new ways of being.
Friday, September 20, The Source Berkeley from 5-9pm PST
Saturday, September 21, The Source Berkeley from 10-8pm PST
Sunday, September 22, Joaquin Miller Forest in Oakland from 11-7pm PST
DAY 1
Opening Ceremony at Sunset
As the sun begins its descent, casting a warm golden glow, our ceremony will commence. Starting with an opening circle, we will open the four directions and activate the elements. Through a collective burn ritual we will release what no longer serves and pray into our highest intentions for the next phase of our evolution.
Sacred Womb Water Ritual
Connecting to the healing power of water, we will honor the sacredness of the womb and its profound connection to the cycles of life, creation, and the natural elements. Together, we will co-create a nurturing and loving space to hold us in our journey ahead.
DAY 2
Divine Feminine Altar Co-creation
Honoring and celebrating the diverse expressions of the Divine Feminine through the mothers, matriarchs, crones, goddesses, and deities that hold meaning for each of us. Together, we will evoke their spirits and pay homage to the ancestors, teachers and guide.
Intro to Maiden, Mother, Matriarch Framework
Exploring these archetypal energies, the Maiden, Mother, Matriarch framework provides a powerful lens for self-reflection and personal growth. Normalizing this process of transformation allows us to embrace and navigate the unique gifts and challenges each stage brings. Feeling into the essence of each phase allows us to blossom without fear.
*Note that these are universal archetypes. When we say Mother, that includes internal mothering, healing the mother wounds, mothering creative projects and the mature feminine etc. It is not specifically about the journey of parenthood/motherhood.
Archetypal Dance & Embodiment
Together, we will tap into the inspiration and energy of the Maiden, Mother, and Matriarch archetypes through intentional and expressive dance! Exploring the unique qualities and characteristics of each, and embracing their transformative potential through our bodies.
Archetypal Adornment with Flower Crowns
Exploring our inner archetypes and expressing our creativity by adorning ourselves with intention, we honor the Maiden, Mother, Matriarch within. Playful, sensual, and in harmony with the natural world, we will design unique and personalized floral crowns to wear to our initiation ceremony.
DAY 3
Nature Altar Co-creation
Gathering in reverence for the natural world and the wisdom of our elders, this collaborative experience honors Mother Earth, our ancestors, and the interconnectedness of all living beings. Through this blessing we will tap into the story of humanity that spans generations.
Triple Goddess Peer Coaching
Through this triadic coaching process, we will prepare our individual sacred offering / creative expression (a dance, poetry, story, art piece etc). Each person will have an opportunity to receive guidance and support, helping clarify her vision, and refine her sacred offering or creative expression to share with the larger group.
Soul Styling & Adornment Photography
Combining the art of styling and personal adornment with the power of photography to capture the essence of your soul's expression. This session is designed to celebrate your authentic self, explore your inner Goddess, and express your unique beauty outwardly.
“Crossing the Threshold” Rite of Passage Ceremony
Marking our individual and collective metamorphosis, this ceremony honors the significance of crossing a threshold and stepping into a new chapter. Whether it be a shedding of old skin, reaching the next stage in your journey of womanhood, or choosing a new way of being in the world, this ceremony is open as we witness one another in our latest evolution.
Closing Circle in the Oakland Redwoods
Bringing our beloved community journey to completion with intention, we will lift our appreciation to the heavens in reverence, love, and a deep sense of sisterhood. Together, we reflect on our individual journeys and celebrate through sacred song and dance!
ALL DAYS
Soulful & Nourishing Meals featuring Chef Tirzah Love
Enchantment awaits as we indulge in soulful and nourishing meals that promise to tantalize your taste buds, nourish your body, and uplift your soul. With a focus on locally sourced, organic produce, Chef Tirzah Love, combines vibrant colors, exquisite flavors, and innovative techniques that will leave you satiated and inspired. Meals include: Friday dinner, Saturday brunch + dinner, and Sunday lunch.
“The Goddess does not rule the world. She is the world.”
~ Sarah Durham Wilson
Meet Your Guides
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Lotus Wong
STATEMENT
The future is feminine. Feminine power is not about “power over” its about accessing our collective power from within. As we heal the wounded masculine and feminine, we integrate, we regenerate and we remember who we are. From that place of wholeness, we rise into the roles we were born to play.
BIO
Lotus Wong is an Executive Priestess, Artist of Life and Soulpreneur with 14 years of experience guiding and gathering groups to grow, heal and expand together. Through coaching, facilitation and experience design, Lotus is dedicated to creating arenas of aliveness for leaders and teams to bring their boldest visions to life.
In practice, Lotus has been on her own journey of healing and self-discovery, traveling and working in over 30 countries from Thailand to Iceland to Mexico. This led her to create the School of Unconditional Love (S.O.U.L.) an education platform offering BIPOC-centered transformational courses, sacred ceremonies, and community events.
Lotus shares her voice as the Cohost of This Intentional Life, a soul-provoking podcast featuring women of color living wholeheartedly. Lotus is also the Co-Founder of Embrace, building beloved community in the East Bay and beyond, as well as a Lead Facilitator with creative learning & development lab, Late Nite Art.
CREDENTIALS
BA in Marketing and a minor in Design Studies
Executive Education Diploma in Design and Leadership (UPEACE, United Nations Graduate School)
Certified Executive Coach & Culture Consultant (Delivering Happiness)
Certified Justice, Equity, Diversity & Inclusion Practitioner (Holistic Underground)
Hridaya Yoga & Meditation School Level 1 & 2 Certification
Ana Maria Magdalena Earth Priestess Training
Tantric Heart Ecstatic Love Training
The Orgasmic Woman Training
Ayurvedic-Thai Massage Training
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Inertia DeWitt
STATEMENT
The revolution will be embodied! I am passionate about helping people reconnect with their bodies, and therefore their creative power. I believe that if you activate creativity, you awaken your spirit and encourage the human body's natural propensity to heal itself.
BIO
Inertia DeWitt is a multifaceted human being: an activist, psychotherapist, dancer, performance artist and more. She is the founder and clinical director of The OHM Center, a trauma recovery center focused on holistic and psycho-sensory treatment programs for BIPOC communities.
Specializing in the treatment of trauma and use of somatic psychotherapy approaches, she provides individual and couples psychotherapy services rooted in healing the body-mind-spirit connection.
She brings with her a wide range of skills and perspectives, including but not limited to psycho-sensory therapies, depth psychotherapy, attachment theory, neuroscience, somatic practices, archetypes, the chakra system, astrology, and expressive art therapies to her therapy clients and in events and workshops.
CREDENTIALS
MA in Counseling Psychotherapy with an Emphasis in Depth Psychotherapy
MFA in Dance with special studies in somatic practices
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, #122499
Certified Brain Health Professional with the Amen Clinics
Certified Yoga Teacher (over 200 hrs of training and 10+ years experience)
Somatic Psychotherapy trained (over 60 CEUs)
Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR) trained practitioner
Brainspotting Phase 1 & 2 trained practitioner
Brainspotting for Groups trained practitioner
Trauma-Informed Expressive Arts Therapy Level 1 & 2 trained practitioner
Dance/Movement Therapy Alternate Route training in progress
Schedule a Clarity Call.
Meet the Goddesses guiding our collective path:
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Inanna | Isis
QUEEN OF HEAVEN, EARTH & THE GREAT BELOW
Inanna is an ancient Sumerian goddess and Queen of Heaven, Earth and the Great Below (underworld). Her mythology is rich with themes of love, fertility, and the cycles of life and death. In her myth, Inanna undergoes a descent into the underworld, symbolizing the journey of transformation and rebirth. Isis is a prominent goddess in ancient Egyptian mythology and also known as the Queen of Heaven and Earth. She is considered to be the divine mother, protector, and nurturer of all living beings. Her devotion to her husband Osiris and her role in resurrecting him after his death make her a symbol of love, fertility, magic and the eternal cycle of life.
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Kuan Yin
GODDESS OF MERCY & COMPASSION
Kuan Yin, is a revered goddess in various Asian spiritual traditions, particularly in Buddhism and Taoism. She is often hailed as the Bodhisattva of Mercy and Compassion, embodying boundless love, empathy, and benevolence towards all beings. As a Bodhisattva, Kuan Yin is believed to have attained enlightenment but chose to remain in the earthly realms to assist and guide sentient beings on their spiritual journeys. Her presence is a source of comfort and solace for those in need, as she listens to the cries of the suffering and offers her compassionate support to all who seek her guidance.
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Mary Magdalene
HIGH PRIESTESS & APOSTLE TO THE APOSTLES
Mary Magdalene is a spiritual teacher, healer, mystic and initiate of the Temple of Isis. She is a channel for sacred femininity and the divine feminine. She embodies the archetype of love, compassion, and devotion, representing the potential for inner transformation and spiritual growth. She is also called the “Apostle to the Apostles" speaking to relationship with Christ and her significant role in the early Christian movement. While there have been many interpretations of her story, devotees of the Mary Magdalene path continues to reclaim her story as a symbol of divine grace and the transformative power of love.
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OYA
GODDESS OF WIND, LIGHTNING & STORMS
Oya, also known as Yansa or Yansan, is a powerful and revered goddess in Yoruba religion and Afro-Caribbean spiritual traditions. She is a goddess of transformation, winds, storms, and lightning, embodying the forces of nature and the fierce power of the elements. Oya is associated with the winds and tornadoes, which symbolize her ability to create change and bring about transformation in both the physical and spiritual realms. As a goddess of change and transitions, Oya is believed to be a guardian of the realm between life and death. She is associated with the cemetery and is seen as a guide for the souls of the deceased, leading them to the spirit world.
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Durga
MOTHER GODDESS. GODDESS OF STRENGTH & PROTECTION.
Durga is a prominent and revered goddess in Hinduism, known for her fierce and protective nature. She is often depicted as a warrior goddess, riding a lion or tiger and wielding various weapons in her multiple arms. Durga is celebrated for her courage, strength, and determination in combating evil forces and restoring balance and harmony in the universe. The name "Durga" means "the invincible" or "the inaccessible," reflecting her powerful and indomitable nature. She is also known by other names such as Devi, Shakti, and Mahadevi, signifying her role as the Divine Mother and the ultimate source of cosmic energy and power.
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PELE
HAWAIIAN GODDESS OF FIRE & VOLCANOES
Pele is a revered and powerful goddess in Hawaiian mythology, known as the goddess of fire, volcanoes, lightning, wind, and the creator of the Hawaiian Islands. She is a central figure in Hawaiian culture and spirituality, embodying the elemental forces that shape the volcanic landscape of the Hawaiian archipelago. Pele is often depicted as a beautiful and powerful woman, with fiery red hair symbolizing the volcanic eruptions she governs. She is known for her passionate and impulsive nature, capable of both great love and great rage. The stories and legends of Pele have been passed down through generations in Hawaiian culture.
“She suddenly saw with total clarity, the evidence that was all around her. Change was not only a natural part of life, it was the only way to reveal the true beauty within her.”
~ Queenism
This ceremony includes:
THREE DAYS OF SACRED CEREMONY
We gather in sacred ceremony for three days. Guided by expert coaches and healers, we will move through a transformative and empowering experience designed to honor the journey of womanhood, celebrate growth, and facilitate a rite of passage for women and femmes of all ages. This immersive event at the water, in the forest and indoors provides a special container for deep reflection, healing, and sisterhood. This ceremony includes snacks, beverages and meals.
HEALING RITUALS, RESOURCES & TOOLS
Through this gathering, you will receive healing rituals, resources, tools and guidance on your path. This will include mindful meditation, dance, movement, sacred song, creative writing, expressive arts therapy, and sound healing practices. These are meant both delight our inner Creatrix and provide concrete tools for ongoing support you in your metamorphosis.
SOUL STYLING MINI SESSION & GODDESS SHOTS
Soul Styling is a deeply transformation process and this session mini session will give you a taste of the magic and allow you to access your inner radiance. This transformative session combines soulful styling, personal adornment, and professional photography to capture the true goddess within you.
PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY
Access to our private online forum to share learnings and inspiration on your path and to deepen your connections in community. You'll also be matched in our “Triple Goddess Coaching” session with a trio for ongoing encouragement, connection, support and accountability after the ceremony.
“One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul.”
― Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Investment
Join the Metamorphosis Ceremony:
(THE TOTAL VALUE OF THIS PROGRAM IS $3000)
Early Bird: $888
After August 1: $999
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Payment Options:
Option 1: Early Bird - Pay in full ($888 before August 1st)
Option 2: Early Bird Payment Plan (3 payments of $296)
For the Payment plan, the first installment of $296 secures your spot.
The remaining two installments of $296 each are due by September 1st.
Fill out this Interest Form below to join the next ceremony.
What the SOUL Community is Saying:
“The Metamorphosis Ceremony gave me SO SO much, I would give it a 10/10. For one, it gave me a sense of sisterhood & a divine right/possibility to connect with my sisters. It was amazing to be in community with so many women and never feel a sense of competitiveness or othering. It really was a vibe. Since coming home, I’ve really enjoyed being able to notice how and when the archetypes we explored show up in my life. I’ve found more ways to integrate ritual into my daily life in ways that honor different aspects of wisdom & being. Musics and song have returned to my life in a big way after our collective singing! I’ve been making more time to connect, integrate lessons, and reach out to just be with others. You all did a phenomenal job of creating a space for spirit to show up and show out through each one of us. There was a great balance of learning and sharing that we all got to be a part of and it felt incredibly safe/supportive. Thank you!”
— Ayla Sellers
“10/10, loved it, powerful deep, inspiring, and exactly what i needed. We went on the journey together but I was also very deep in my own process and experience which filled my cup so I could face a very full year ahead. The experience was very unique and well facilitated. I loved everything especially the Triple Goddess Coaching. First night was very powerful. I loved the dancing on Day 2 and then Day 3 dressing up was the cherry on top. I’m so glad that I did this especially on my birthday, it was a risk to come by myself but it was life changing.”
— Keeisi Caballero
“Such a beautiful 3 day journey. I loved the idea of Soul Sisters groups with the triple goddess coaching. The rose ceremony at the beginning where we spoke to where we’ve been, where we are now and where we’re going, brought me to tears. I loved the soul styling and photoshoot on Day 3, being wined and dined like the divine beings we are. The affirmations you offered were exactly what I needed to step into that altar and crown myself accordingly. Overall it was a very positive and transformative weekend, I was raving about it to my friends, mom, aunts. Truly powerful experience.”
— Sanura Dewa
“I loved Metamorphosis! It was a 10/10, exquisite, so beautiful, so thoughtful in the details. I appreciated the spaciousness and simplicity, I learned a lot about facilitating and event curation. I loved the two day experience and the arc was so clear and it really felt whole and well rounded. Highlights for me were the group altar and the Triple Goddess Coaching. It was so rich and I see women benefitting so much from this. It was exactly what I needed to experience and had been calling in to step into my maturity, mother phase.”
— désirée freda
“I experienced a deep sense of communion with fellow femmes of culture, I loved seeing and sensing how each of us embodies each of the archetypes in surprising and wonderful ways. It opened the boundaries of identity in a way and introduced a kind of fluidity that is really lovely, and more true and accurate to life. The coordination and organization of the ceremony was really excellent and the container was very strong and beautiful. The flow from each element was cohesive and built upon each thing before it seamlessly, I loved the incorporation of song and music and movement. That there was space to be creative and not just lodged in words. I would give Metamorphosis a 10/10!”
~ Romona Mukherjee
“This experience truly made me feel like a goddess. I felt an energetic boost in self-love and confidence. I became more vocal in my wants and needs in relationships, and speaking my authentic truth more than ever before. Also, a new appreciation of sisterhood and the power of being surrounded by women. I also connected with my own femininity and womanhood in a new way, through my connection with other women. It was so powerful to connect with all these amazing BIPOC sisters whom I’ve come to love. ”
— Gaby Reinhart
FAQ
Wait so how much does it cost and what is included?
The 3 day ceremony is an investment in honoring self and is designed to be accessible at $888 Early Bird and $999 after August 1st. It includes all ceremonial offerings, materials for flower crown adornment and art therapy exercises, soulful dinner on Saturday night and nourishing light breakfast and snacks for Saturday and Sunday.
It does not include other meals (bring your own lunch for Saturday and Sunday and we will have some yummy staples), transportation or accommodations.
Remind me what the dates/times are again?
Friday, September 20th from 5pm-9pm PST at Secret Location in Oakland
Saturday, September 21st from 10am-8pm PST (Dinner included and optional) at The Source Chiropractic, Berkeley
Sunday, September 22nd from 10am-6pm PST in Joaquin Miller Forest
I really want to participate, but cannot afford it. Are there any alternative options?
The pricing of Metamorphosis was calculated intentionally to offer you extreme value as a group program. If you have a gut-wrenching YES, do not let your "I can't" voice get the best of you. We believe in your ability to cultivate the necessary means to participate and honor your readiness. Please schedule a Clarity Call and let us know your situation and we can explore options from there. This program is an investment, so if it is not possible at this time, no worries. Sign up for our email list and stay tuned for more community offerings!
I feel a strong yes, but my “I can’t” voice is really strong, any guidance?
Schedule a Clarity Call and let's chat. Nerves are normal... you're on the edge of embarking on your next stage! Anything that is calling this much of you forward into being will invite a level of resistance. Just notice it. Notice how much power you give it. See if it's fear or if it's guidance and take aligned action-steps forward.
How many spaces are available?
This is program is designed for 12-24 participants to keep the intimacy or the program and the accessibility to the guides abundant.
I can’t make the whole ceremony, is that okay?
The ceremony is designed to be an intimate and closed container. We don’t recommend missing the ceremony or coming more than 30 minutes late to any session as it impacts the group.
Will you be running this ceremony again?
We hope so! We intend to host more offerings and ceremonies together. This is our introductory pricing as a community offering and the rate will likely change in future.
Do I need to be on the path of motherhood in order to participate in this ceremony?
Not at all. Motherhood is a very personal journey that is not for everyone and. When we say Mother, we see it as an expansive archetype that includes healing our inner mother wounds, inner parenting/mothering, mothering our creations, growing into our mature feminine, internal mothering, the mature feminine, and not explicitly motherhood.
Why Women & Femmes of Color? Will you be offering this to other communities too?
For this round, we intentionally chose to create a sacred container for women & femmes of color by women & femmes of color. While rite of passage ceremonies can be rare, rite of passage ceremonies explicitly designed for communities of color are even more rare. We hope to offer more mixed race spaces in the future.
I love this and can’t participate but want to now how I can support?
Thanks for asking! We’ve created an Allyship Scholarship for those who feel called to support and elevate Women & Femmes of Color. These donations will go toward partial and full scholarships for others. We thank you for your generosity!
Do you offer refunds? If so, what is the policy?
We encourage you to feel into it and find your clear yes. Once you’re in, your deposit is non-refundable. The remaining payments are due by Sept. 1st. If you pay in full, 1/3 will be considered the deposit. If unforeseeable events occur and you decide not to attend the ceremony, you can receive a refund of your second payment if canceled in writing via email by Sept 1st.
What if the ceremony gets canceled due to unforseen events?
In case of any unforeseen event that may lead to the cancellation of the rite of passage ceremony, event organizers will notify all participants and guests as soon as possible. Communication channels may include email, phone calls, social media, and this webpage.
Safety and Risk Assessment: The decision to cancel the event will be based on a thorough safety and risk assessment carried out by the event organizers. If holding the ceremony poses significant risks to the participants' well-being, the cancellation will be prioritized.
Refund Policy: If the event is postponed, your deposit can be used as a credit for the next ceremony. If you cannot or do not want to attend the postponed ceremony, you can receive a full refund.
Is this ceremony religious or spiritual? What’s the difference?
Throughout the journey, we will call on the wisdom of deities and the Universal Spirit but this ceremony does not adhere to a specific religious doctrine or follow organized religious practices. Instead, the ceremony focuses on creating a sacred and transformative experience that goes beyond religious boundaries and resonates with a broader, more inclusive spiritual perspective.
Does this ceremony replace a mental health practitioner?
No, this ceremony is not intended to replace a licensed mental health practitioner or provider to address emotional and mental health wellbeing or wellness. If there’s a case where additional support is needed, our on-site licensed LMFT therapist can offer practitioner recommendations.
